Family First

A lot of people say it, but do they actually live it?  In my life, my family has gone through many trials and tribulations.  Separation, bankruptcy, legal battles, and death, the tough times have led to a healthy loyal bond.  The troubles that we have endured ultimately have allowed us to know each other in such an intimate way  because we have never had space to hide anything.  For my family to function we have to literally have it all on the table.  This style of communication, that has developed through my family, really shapes how I see myself and the role I have not only in family but in life.  While times can be tough the outcome is something that I'm truly grateful for.

Today Catherine, Abita, and I traveled to see Granny.  And again, I'm reminded of what family is really about.  Catherine is the type of person who will drop anything she has for her family.  It's probably one of the things I love most about her.  Since Granddaddy died, her Granny has been alone in this country home and has had a desire to see family more than ever....well, really anyone at that.  Last night Catherine posed the option of taking a road trip to NC and see her for the day.  And let me tell you WHAT A DAY IT WAS!!

We ate bear, helped do yard work, saw her granddaddy's grave (on the property), and visited with extended family.  And yes, really it was bear.  Her hospitality, acceptance, and appreciation were such a needed extension since in this world life can at times feel distant, rough, and lonely.  The trip really reminds me that work and the hustle bustle is all good and well, but when it really boils down and life gets tough the people that help you get through it is family.  However or whoever that may be....family is the rhythm that keeps my life consistent.  I'm so thankful for people in my life that help me catch a breath of fresh air.